Saturday, December 17, 2011

Party time with a hand me down

This is the story of a dress.



My mother gave me a Girbaud dress that she no longer wanted, and immediately I wondered when would I ever wear it? My mother is an art critic in Tribeca, I am a rural professor. But I made a vow not to give the dress away until I had worn it at least once.

To my rescue came a very old friend from high school who invited me to join her at the New Year's Party at the Harvard Club in New York City. At last I had an occasion at which to wear this long and dramatic piece of clothing.

I tried it on in the guest quarters at my parents the evening my mother had given it to me. She had also mixed us a martini, which put me in such a giddy mood, I asked her for another. When I was finally alone again in my room, late that night, I decided to try on the dress. The photo is not the best quality, but it gives a pretty good idea of what it looks like, and perhaps also, what I look like after two martinis.





I have tried it on again at home, and, with the aide of my fashion savvy husband, have stitched the bottom up a bit so that it's not quite so long. I went to TJ Maxx to pick up a little bit of bling. Looking at photos of runway models in Girbaud was helpful for accessorizing. And it was fun to scroll through these pretty wild but gorgeous outfits.

This Cinderella also gets to go to the ball.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Revolution day

Revolution in White River Junction has a Facebook page, so when Kim, the owner, let everybody know that she had tights, I was curious. I also wanted to drop off some sweaters after purging my closet. There weren't that many, but as I was sorting through my tiny closet (by female standards), the big white box containing a pair of hardly ever worn Frye boots reminded me of my foolish spending moments.

I had bought them around my birthday, in an attempt to add something very cool to my wardrobe. I had bought them new, thinking that they were an investment, that they would never go out of style, and that perhaps one of my daughters would want them. After a few years, I've worn those boots maybe four times, and my daughters have no interest in them. So it was time to purge those too.

Kim took everything I brought. In the mean time, I looked through her Johnson (Vermont) woolen mills selection and bought my husband one of their grey herringbone vests, and also a "gently worn" skirt that Clara who had been in earlier, had set aside.

White River Junction never ceases to amaze me in its ability to give me a little vacation from the blandness of the rest of the region. Besides Revolution, which is a vacation in and of itself when you simply walk in, there is the theater which has a nice little repertoire, and several restaurants and cafes. I finally tried the restaurant Elixir, which is located in a restored freight house. The bar, made from an enormous recycled door, was one of the most unique surfaces I had ever eaten on.

Finally, there is the Upper Valley Food Coop, a small supermarket that sells mostly organic food, but also locally raised, locally grown, meats, cheeses and produce when in season. The people who shop there are so crunchy, with their woolen hats no matter the season, and their hand knit oversized sweaters, and an overall demeanor that says "I am kind to the earth" , "I will always vote for the most left-wing candidate," and "I care about other people more than I care about myself." It amazes me that I can be just a few miles from the incredibly "normy" town of Hanover, where people are either training for a marathon or for Wall Street or for both, and feel a completely different vibe. You are in Vermont the minute you walk into the Upper Valley Food Coop. If you are searching for authentic crunchiness, the Upper Valley Food Coop is the place for you.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

An afternoon on Newbury Street

I spent this Saturday afternoon shopping by myself on Newbury Street. I can't say that I enjoyed it, it was rather awful. The sidewalks were barely walkable, and the shops were filled with rich college girls walking around with enormous Louis Vuitton bags. The ones that were with their mothers frightened me even more, because the mothers were trying to resemble their daughters. You had to wait in line for a dressing room, you also had to wait in line to pay, clothes were on the floor, people were pushing their way into racks.

I counted three "Second Time Around" shops and another consignment shop located just across the street from one of them. The mutation clothes undergo from new and very expensive to priced down because used does not require many steps in that neighborhood.

I also went to Filene's Basement for the first time, and fondled some gorgeous Missoni coats ($600 a pop).

Who are these Saturday shoppers? I am beginning to understand who has the wealth in this country. I am also beginning to understand the Occupy Wall Street movement. There's just way too much conspicuous consumption on the one hand, and way too much poverty on the other.

It didn't help that the only bookstore in the neighborhood, a Border's, was closed. How can Back Bay, a residential neighborhood filled with college educated people, not have a bookstore? Do these people not read anymore? Or only read on their electronic devices?

Fortunately my drive home turned my mood around. After an aborted attempt at rescuing my husband at an airport where he wasn't going to fly into until the next day, and having my car's burned out headlight bulbs replaced at an "Autozone" by two very nice gentlemen, I was on my way home again. On the trip home, Garrison Keillor and his gang were up to their usual tricks. Their "Occupy Wall Street" piece was well worth listening to, and had me laughing down the dark interstate that brought me home safely. I was alone again, and finally enjoying some solitude.

My sole purchase: a rather Puritan outfit, which is appropriate given that it was purchased in Massachusetts. On sale at Lucky Brand were bark colored corduroy pants and a white gypsy blouse.

Monday, October 3, 2011

recycling again

I finally put on the dress I bought in Montreal last June. It comes from a shop on the rue Saint-Denis that sells local designers' creations made out of recycled materials. With it I am wearing a scarf I just bought at Revolution made in the same spirit, old clothes (cloths), new creation. Meanwhile, Rosalie is in Morocco lamenting that there is no recycling program per se. But she did post a photo showing coal being sold in old couscous sacks.

Saturday, September 24, 2011

thrifting into fall

Clara found a very stylish homemade dress at the salvation army in White River Junction. And I took some photos of early foliage.



Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Burlington, VT






Today was the big outing to Burlington, Vermont with Rosalie, the older daughter who is in college and is going to spend a trimester abroad in Morocco. We felt a little strange driving north on I 89, passing vehicles that were clearly headed to towns in need of emergency assistance from the flooding caused by Hurricane Irene. We saw a great deal of muddy water and flooded fields.
Burlington was nice and dry, with beautiful clouds wafting over Lake Champlain. We found a mother/daughter symbiosis, whereby we effortlessly were attentive to what the other one wanted to do. So, for example, while Rosalie went into a ski and bike shop, I went into a consignment shop next door to it, where I found a black cashmere cardigan for younger sister Clara -- she's been wearing the same black sweater for a few years now, and might be willing to replace it. Burlington also has a "Second Time Around" where we took a quick peak as well. We had a very nice lunch at Rosalie's favorite crunchy restaurant, Stone Soup, and we followed that with tea in a real Indian tea room where you can sit on pillows and lean against rugs hanging from the walls.
On this shopping trip, I had better luck finding new clothes rather than "gently used" ones, possibly because Burlington's downtown has a nice balanced mix of independent and chain stores. At the Outdoor Gear Exchange, which has moved to the pedestrians only part of Church Street, you can always find a great deal on new athletic clothing, although they also sell consignment. That's where I picked up an Ibex sweater coat on sale. The North Face store, oddly situated just across the street from the Stone Soup restaurant (two very different crowds) was also having a sale. There I picked up some "Darn Tough" made in Vermont socks for hiking. Underwear and colorful tights at American Apparel, a plaid shirt for Rosalie at Urban Outfitters, which also sells its "Urban Renewal" combination of recycled and vintage clothing, and, the Vermont based Salaam brand has its own store on Church Street where I found two dresses on sale.
New clothes are sold in excess, which is why so many used clothing shops have proliferated all over the western world. Every time a new store comes into the town of Hanover, New Hampshire, where I work, it's either a women's clothing store or a restaurant. So how do I explain my recent acquisitions of "new" clothes? I guess I'm not trying to prove anything to myself or to the world. I do want to be conscious of my buying habits or even obsessions, of my need for "retail therapy" and my own excessive consumerism. The TJ Maxx in West Lebanon, New Hampshire has helped me relax after some pretty stressful moments, just by the very fact that I am not looking for anything in particular. I'm just looking. The pleasure of looking. And the pleasure of finding.
Which is precisely what I like to do in Burlington, Vermont where there are plenty of beautiful things to look at.
From much chitchatting with Rosalie, I also came to the conclusion that, at some point, someone has to buy something new in order for it to become old or used. That seems like a tautology, and I'm not looking for an excuse to spend money on new things. But vintage or gently worn or whatever you want to call second hand clothing had to belong to somebody who at some point bought it new. I also want to invoke the "quality" clause, and reassure myself that I also am interested in buying new for the long run. All these used items bought at very low prices become throwaway items very quickly because of their low value. It's so much easier to accumulate clothes and forget about them when they were bought dirt cheap. And it's so much easier to part with them when they already look a bit worn. There are some exceptions of course. But overall, one tends to develop a fondness for one's material belongings because of their quality not their quantity.


Wednesday, August 31, 2011

car boot sale

Clara is back from Edinburgh where she bought two dresses at a car "boot" sale. She is wearing her "Wednesday Adams goes on a picnic" dress on her first day of school.



Thursday, August 25, 2011

More skirts, and car boot sales

Hello all,

I have been rather quiet these last few weeks, which is not to say that I haven't been acquiring more pieces from my favorite local consigners. The last time I went into the Pink Alligator, I suddenly had this feeling that second hand stores were perfectly good sources of new seasonal attires. The latest acquisitions are in the photos.

One to close out the summer, the other to bring with me this coming winter to France, as it's both long and machine washable.

Meanwhile daughter Clara went off to Edinburgh rather last minute to help out at the Fringe Festival. There she discovered car boot sales. It sounds doubly thrifty, selling boots out of cars? But no, of course, it's the trunk of the car in British English. When she returns, I will be sure to post her latest Scottish acquisitions.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

lavender + fabric scraps





This summer, my two lavender plants are doing really well. So well in fact that I can make sachets and give them to people as gifts. This summer I also finally bought a sewing machine. A consignment clothing lover’s best friend. Now Clara can hem her skirts in seconds instead of painstakingly sewing them by hand. And with her skirt scraps I can make potpourri sachets.

But of course, all this has a downside. As I sit at the sewing machine, I think of sweat shops, and women who are poorly paid all over the world, and women who learned to sew in school, but nothing else, which is why I never learned to sew because my generation was going to free itself from that icon of domesticity.

As I make my little lavender sachets, I think of artisanal work, and how difficult it is to make a profit when you are making something one step at a time, and that it’s no wonder we went through the industrial revolution. Crank out those sachets thousands at a time, then maybe there will be a small profit down the road.
Meanwhile, as I assemble my sachets in my makeshift workshop, I think about the pride that went into handmade things. I am a little proud, and a very nice scent is diffusing all over the house.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

another great blog






Also thanks to Modern Millie's web site I found Sally Vintage, in which Sally (I guess that's her real name) goes thrifting and sells via Etsy, but also gathers old photos from her followers, goes to rock concerts, and has a nice narrative and beautiful photos along the way.
She takes us to enormous flea markets, uncovering yet another site of excess stuff that people have accumulated over the years and want to get rid of. I used to think of flea markets as fun places to go, where you would unearth the most unusual candle holder or tea cup or lampshade or or or...But now, after seeing Sally's photos of racks and racks of old clothing, they begin to look like a very low rent department store, reminding us that our excessive consumption has a history.

But then I happened upon Ronald Ingelhart's concept of "post-materialism," in which, already in the 1970s, he theorized that "Western societies [...] were undergoing transformation of individual values, switching from materialist values, emphasizing economic and physical security, to a new set of post-materialist values, which instead emphasized autonomy and self expression." (Thank you Wikipedia). I am not so sure that we have "transitioned" away from materialism to something less materialistic. However, perhaps this whole vintage/thrifting/consigning "revolution" might indeed signal a transition for SOME of us to a more autonomous, less imitative, less cookie cutter style of presenting ourselves to the world.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

blog to blog








While looking through the "Modern Millie" web site I found this incredibly cool blog by the "sartorialist" in which he posts tons of photos of people on the streets of various cities around the world AND old photos submitted by people who follow his blog.

Monday, July 11, 2011

Newburyport MA

(Hannah Anderson blouse for Clara)


        
(three skirts from Pandora's Box)

Just got back from a weekend of cycling, sun, surf and... thrifting. Newburyport has at least three consignment shops. A young guy in a gift shop said that you can only buy used clothing in this town. He was exaggerating of course, but you do have a feeling that, if a summer destination town like Newburyport suddenly has more second hand shops than first hand shops, society has finally figured out that we need to start getting rid of all our excess stuff.
Which reminds me of a movie I just saw that includes second hand clothing in its plot line. In "Larry Crowne" the main character played by Tom Hanks befriends a twenty something who drops out of college to follow her fashion passion. She opens a consignment shop. Hollywood's attempt at making second hand cool, not chic or trendy, just mildly cool. Tom Hanks undergoes a transformation as he drops his Kmartish middle of the road "normy" clothing for a wardrobe more befitting of a young dude who rides around on a scooter and supposedly can only afford second hand clothing. A closer look at the ending credits might reveal otherwise (wardrobe by ...Armani etc?). But the idea that secondhand has made it into mainstream Hollywood cinema is an indicator that we are either going through a serious recession or, à la Newburyport, it's time to sell off the excess stuff. A sort of post-modern touch in a silly comedy about unemployed white middle aged males. We are going through a serious recession in an era unsurpassed in its frenetic consumption of stuff.
        I had time to go to two consignment shops.  The first one, "Modern Millie," had more of a trendy, nostalgic feel that made it more of a "vintage" shop, heavy on the pastel palette bordering on preppy. Muffy needs an outfit to party on Scott's yacht, and she wants to be chic yet ironic. How about a pink dress with little green whales that her mother might have worn back in her Wellesley days? Somewhat unique was its small selection of old 1940s and 50s fashion magazines. The handbag selection wasn't bad either and prices were very reasonable.
Across the street was the equivalent of Beacon's Closet but on a smaller scale. Inside "Pandora's Box," clothes were arranged by type and color. And everything was priced in the twelve dollar range. As I concentrated on the skirt selection, the country music station ("The North Shore's best country...") played annoyingly in the background. I guess country music in thrift stores go together, to evoke a sort of working class, life is hard atmosphere.
          Needless to say, it was extremely satisfying to try on five skirts, all of which fit and looked perfectly fine, without wondering whether I was being reasonable. At twelve dollars a pop, simply trying on clothes should be a guilt free experience. Actually buying three out of five (and a sleeveless blouse for Clara) knowing that I would walk out of there with four items of clothing for less than fifty dollars is thrilling. I get high on that simple, unreckless pleasure.
        Pandoras's Box: interesting name considering that when you open it, it's not exactly trouble that you find. It's very reasonably priced clothing.

Friday, June 17, 2011

Summer reading?

The "Newdressaday" blogger has decided to write a book. I spotted it in my local bookstore and of course had to get it as my first summer read.

Well, let’s just say that people who write good blogs don’t necessarily write good books. The Secret lives of Dresses reminds me of a porn movie (not that I’ve seen that many porn movies) whereby every scene that does not have a description of a dress is there to get to the part of the book with the description of the dress. Thinly veiled plot that advances to the next… dress description. I also noticed that detailed descriptions of dresses  do not make in and of themselves great details in novels. Knowing what shape, color, number of and size buttons were on a particular dress is not that interesting when described in words. Just show me the dress, but don’t describe it to me. Unless it’s a plot device needed to give us more information about a character or a clue about what might happen next.

At one point in the story the narrator remarks that the characters are talking like sitcom characters. That was my impression with the way they talked in the entire novel. One cliché after another, predictable characters, predictable ending.

It might make a cute movie, and it might be fun to imagine who would play whom. But as a novel, it did not increase or modulate my appreciation of vintage clothes.

I picked up another “dress” book during my recent stay in Montreal. I kind of had to buy it since its title is quite simply Fringues* written by Christine Orban. It contains a few good aphorisms about clothes (translations are all mine):

-Life is like a movie, and your old clothes help to push the rewind button and revisit particular moments in your life.
-Fashion must remain as unpredictable as life. […] uniforms and dress codes are boring.
-To buy the right dress, you need to listen like a doctor with a stethoscope. Once the dress is on, you must listen to your inner purr, your rhythm, your biological sheet music.
-My clothes are my shield.
-You can’t change your face but you can change your bag.
-Clothes work as well as science or literature to fill the void while waiting to die.

Plot: The protagonist was a saleswoman at the flagship Chanel store until she had an allergic reaction to the stark black uniform she had to wear and was fired.
So she needs to find a husband to keep financing her expensive shopping habits.

A French book about clothes refers to designers, styles, cuts, accessories that we don’t have here in the US. She mentions a Comme des Garçons skirt she bought at a consignment shop.

I disagree with her that clothes are for seducing men, and that when you try something on, you must imagine a guy looking at you. But she argues that in seduction there is life, something that exists and grows and steers us away from death. I see her point, but it doesn’t have to be the case each time you buy a new or old piece of clothing. My general rule of thumb is that it has to have some specific purpose and that I can picture myself wearing it in a particular context. If I can’t imagine that, then I don’t buy it because I know that I won’t wear it, and it will take up space in my non-existent closet.

This book is not quite a novel. She peoples it with characters who represent a certain type of woman or man, and she reflects on their various ideas about fashion.  

It does have a bit of a twist at the end. At the risk of giving away the ending, she does discover that clothes don’t love you back, and that love is more important than clothes.

More, less, as. Clothes are important, period. Just don’t let it get out of control.

* reminder: “fringue” is French slang for clothing

Friday, June 10, 2011

recycling old clothes into new clothes

A friend alerted me to the blog  known as newdressaday.com. It is very inspiring even if one's sewing skills are limited, which is my case, unfortunately.
http://www.newdressaday.com/

Sunday, June 5, 2011

clothes swapping

A few weeks ago I attended my first ever clothes swap. There was a ritual about it. Only women can come because, after dinner, they all undress and try on each others' discarded clothes. Our hostess went first, explaining a little about the clothes she was getting rid of. Then it was the guests' turn. I found out that sisters are great for giving you clothes as presents. And perhaps not so great. I don't have a sister, but I do have a mother. Anyway. One of the guests parted with this sweater, made in Japan, with little tiny beads sewn in a floral pattern. I knew that Clara would totally fall for that one. So I grabbed it.

I wish I had the running commentary that went on all evening, as various women tried on each others' old clothes. My contributions were negligible, and my mother's silk  Hermes blouse will simply end up at Goodwill...darn that little yellow spot on the front!

(Hermes silk blouse)

Saturday, May 14, 2011

shops as communities

I went into "The Pink Alligator" the other day, the consignment shop in Hanover, NH, to just have a look. And the owner started chatting with another customer asking her if she was a real estate broker because she was looking for a place to live for her husband, her two little dogs and herself of course. It turned out that the customer was not a real estate broker, but I heard the whole story about how the owner needed to move out of her apartment rental because she could only have one dog.

I often go into shops not to shop but to touch base with people and find out what's going on. When shopping online, that just doesn't happen (or does it? I guess there are shopping blogs, I guess, in a way, this is a shopping blog, where people can share more than just stories about shopping).

Medina: Arabic word for the oldest part of a city, usually where the souks or shops are located. But it is also a place where people exchange information. In Lyon, the area near the Pont de la Guillotière has served as the "medina" for North African immigrants who moved to that part of the city starting in the 1950s. People bring their old stuff and try to sell it. People also talk to people. It's just a gathering place on a square near a bridge. But any shopping district can be a medina. A market is a medina. A place where you can buy stuff but you can also exchange information.

Consignment shops have the particular characteristic, if you are a regular consigner, of placing you in a more intimate relationship with the people who work there because you have to stay there for a while while they go through your old clothes and judge them. Sometimes I will tell the story of a particular item of clothing. My mother's old Hermès silk shirt, for example. Clearly, another example of my father's lack of imagination but great generosity.

Hence the consignment shop isn't just a shop. It's a place where you get to know, not just the people who work there, but also other consigners. At "Revolution" a woman brought bags of clothes as she was shedding her old NYC identity. She had left everything,  her job, her guy, her large closets, and it was time to move on. She had beautiful clothes.

In a shop in Lyon a woman walked in with two pairs of shoes she had never worn. After she left, the owner told me that this happens often. Some women shop too much and need help. "Sales resistance." I learned that expression watching an early "I Love Lucy" episode. The one where she can't resist buying a new vacuum cleaner. A new vacuum cleaner? ! In this day and age, not being able to resist buying a new vacuum cleaner is considered, well, boring. Not being able to resist buying yet another pair of shoes that you probably will never wear and don't need is another story.

How did I go from the medina to sales resistance? Ah yes, the intimacy of the relationships you develop in consignment shops. Little by little, we exchange stories, and find out about each other. I wouldn't go as far as saying that we become friends with each other because I cannot imagine taking that relationship outside the shop. 

But the shop remains, for me at least, a place to take a break from life and focus on clothes and people. clothes and people. It's nice to know that there are little medinas all over the world.

Monday, May 9, 2011

May in NYC

In New York over the weekend, time to pull out the first dress I ever bought at Revolution in White River Junction and the belt which I acquired thanks to consignment sales. 

A New York pour le weekend, c'est le moment de mettre la première robe que j'ai achetée à Revolution, portée avec une ceinture que j'ai obtenue avec le crédit accumulé de mes propres ventes.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

some old, some new


Today's post is brought to you by Clara, 17, wearing a jacket purchased at our local Salvation Army source, aka, the LISTEN Center, with an old striped shirt of mine and a new skirt she just ordered online.

Clara, ma fille de 17 ans, nous montre une veste achetée à l'Armée du salut, un de mes vieux chemisiers et une nouvelle jupe qu'elle a commandée en ligne.
 


And another photo from Camden Market in North London:

Monday, April 4, 2011

some finds

Here are a few finds from ebay and consignment shops. The photo from the Met shows off the Mulberry bag, the photo of me standing on a college campus shows off a hand me down suede jacket, a denim skirt from "The Pink Alligator" and a cotton and silk vest acquired at "Revolution."

photos: Nelleke Scharroo, F. Fabrikant

Quelques trouvailles sur ebay et dans des dépôt-ventes. La photo prise au musée Metropolitain montre mon sac Mulberry. La photo prise sur un campus montre une veste en daim qu'une amie m'a donnée, une jupe en jean achetée au Pink Alligator, et un pull sans manche acheté à Revolution.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

why "fringarde"?

It's a combination of the French word "fringue" which is slang for "clothing, " and the French word  "ringard" which means old-fashioned, out of date, out of style. But what I really intended was to turn the noun "fringue" into some sort of adjective with the "-ard" ending, to mean, obsessed with clothes.

Pourquoi "Fringarde"?

C'est le mot "fringue" combiné avec le mot "ringard". Mais l'idée surtout avec ce "-ard" c'est l'obsession avec les fringues.

Slow Clothing



(La traduction en français se trouve en dessous de la version anglaise)

I vaguely remember the first time I went to a second hand shop. It was in the early eighties, and I was attending college in a small Western Massachusetts town. I considered my Finnish housemate from Maine to be very hip, in part because she was blond, blue eyed, and had an accent, and also because she was not afraid to wear used clothing. Furthermore, with little or no income, for many college students, the local Salvation Army was a treasure trove of jeans, corduroys, winter coats, sweaters, shirts and accessories.   I don’t remember what I bought, a sweater probably. But I do remember trying to wear it and feeling very frumpy and ill at ease, conscious that somebody else had worn the garment before me.

Decades later, my teenage daughter, the one who plans to be a starving artist when she is older, receives full credit for successfully rekindling the second hand store as a legitimate source of clothing.   It also helps that this time, something has changed in our culture. Used has become chic, probably because some clothes that were once simply called “second hand” have been elevated to the status of “vintage.”

With that fuzzy juxtaposed image of “used” yet  “vintage”  in mind, I have since given old clothes new consideration. Not only has it become more hip to wear used (gently worn, vintage) clothing, but it has also become more politically correct.  Used clothes are recycled clothes. The line between used and vintage clothing having become awfully thin; it does not really matter what you find, as long as it feels good on you and will last through a few more wears.

Consignment stores selling used clothing have popped up everywhere including in my own semi-rural backyard. They all seem to have funny, clever or hipster names like the very cute “The Pink Alligator,” the ironic “Nouveauté,” the ever expanding “Second Time Around” in New England and “Beacon’s Closet” in New York City.  During my brief teaching assignment in Lyon, France, I discovered one named “des' habits et vous” which, literally translated means, “of clothing and you” but phonetically also means “remove your clothes.”

Located in the increasingly hip town of White River Junction, Vermont, "Revolution" provides a space in which one is transported to a baroque elsewhere. Having none of the tightly packed racks and fluorescent lights associated with goodwill stores, with its walls painted in  black, its small halogen spotlights, its cappuccino machine behind the counter, and its old leather sofa and enormous empire mirrors, Revolution transforms you the moment you step inside the store. I forgot to mention the music, an eclectic soundtrack, played just loud enough to almost annoy you, as if you were in a nightclub late at night. But music is what really sets the atmosphere. You're walking into a theater, into a show, and you are one of the performers.

Small racks of old clothes are organized by gender first, women in the front, men in the back, and then by type of clothing: dresses, tops, pants, skirts, coats and shoes. Another side of the store is devoted to new fashion made from pieces of old clothes: recycled clothing, “reconstructed apparel” they call it.

My first purchase of gently worn clothing consisted of a spaghetti strap dress covered with rows of colorful dots on a dark background, reminiscent of the French label Côtélac’s slightly bohemian style.  That mental association made the garment seem even cooler, more beautiful and definitely unique.

When different designers are producing the same clothes in factories in China (I once saw a skirt from Putumayo that had the exact same fabric as one from Anthropologie), one yearns for something unique and, even better, made by someone who was paid a decent wage. It turned out that my Côtélaclike dress, which had no tag, had been made by hand by the consigner.

These new age consignment stores have become more than just a source of hip and unique clothing. They also express a mindset for women and men, a mindset akin to écriture feminine.  Back in my grad school days where I learned that everything was patriarchal, including consumption and the pervasiveness of commodity culture, the hope of some alternative way of living lay in this notion that women could express themselves from the body. A more feminine or feminized or womanly society could emerge if only we could “write” from our “body.” Not literally from the biologically female body, but from a more symbolic body that was not masculine, that was not exclusively aggressive and profit minded.

Writing from the body meant allowing other forms of beauty to emerge outside the normative male ideal of femininity.  The “To-be-looked-at-ness” of women, to quote the famous essay by Laura Mulvey, was no longer limited to men’s voyeuristic and fetishistic gaze. Women who did not look like Marilyn Monroe or Madonna could also consider themselves beautiful, sexy and seductive.

I don’t know whether Kim Souza, who wrote The “Revolution Manifesto” that the store has placed on its web site, had read Laura Mulvey before writing it, but it condenses in a series of short declarations many of the central ideas associated with second wave feminism.

THE REVOLUTION MANIFESTO 

AS PRESENTED TO YOU ON OUR BODIES 
WHICH ARE BLANK CANVASES
ON WHICH WE EXPRESS OUR IDENTITY. 

OUR UNIQUE IDENTITIES, UNCOMPROMISED BY LABELS OR FEAR OR JUDGMENT
ARE THE FOUNDATION FOR A COMMUNITY BASED ON DIVERSITY AND INCLUSIVITY.

 WE INVITE YOU TO THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COUTURE CULTURE WHICH THRIVES ON
EXCESS TO REMIND OURSELVES THAT HUMANITY REQUIRES NO AIR BRUSH

 AND THAT FASHION IS A MEANS TO ENHANCE OUR INNER BEAUTY, NOT TO DEFINE IT.

 WE ARE REVOLUTIONARIES.

 WE ARE DIVAS.

 WE MAKE OUR OWN FUN.

 WE ARE BRAVE AND PRETTY ON THE INSIDE.

 WE ARE POWERFUL INDIVIDUALS WHO AFFECT THE CHANGE WE WANT TO SEE.

 WE ARE RADIANT AND PEACEFUL INFLUENCES.

 WE ARE SASSY AND SENSITIVE AND RESILIENT.

Twice a year, women and men of all ages, heights, shapes and sizes walk down the Revolution catwalk in a restaurant across the street where the owners stage their fashion show. Nobody is chosen to be in the show. You sign up first-come first serve, and you must wear clothes from the store, clothes which you are under no obligation to purchase. A make-up artist is hired to do all the faces of the participants. The same glittery streaks adorn the forehead and cheeks of all the participants. The effect is stunning: the uniformity in the makeup puts all the “models” on the same esthetic plane. Beauty suddenly has no age, no weight, no height. Beauty is just beauty. Every body belongs on the catwalk.

The Revolution fashion show. The owner, Kim Souza, holds the microphone in the background.

Consignment stores open up the possibility of living differently, of living against the grain of a dominant culture obsessed with big profits and destructive ideas of female beauty. Sometimes they become alternative spaces of consumption where no or little money is exchanged since one can cash in one’s consignment earnings by simply acquiring pieces at the very store where the consignment took place. Consigning generates yet another material and emotional benefit: purging. In order to consign, one must go through one’s own clothes, which sets in motion a process of sorting, cleaning out and evaluating just what one really needs in one’s wardrobe. The process of purging eases the transition associated with a radical change of life like a new job, or downsizing one’s living space.  Letting go of things no longer needed, with the knowledge that a bit of cash might come in at the end of the process, is extremely therapeutic.

Add to the therapy of the purge the excitement of the “great find.” The great find consists of unearthing from the many racks of clothing a very  well preserved pair of  Ferragamo shoes, an immaculate Missoni coat, a silk dress with an amazing print, all for a fraction of what you would pay if it were new. I will never forget a trip to London with my older daughter who was fixated on buying a Burberry scarf at Harrod’s. I brought her to the Camden market in North London first, where we searched and found for thirty pounds a cashmere Burberry scarf in the classic plaid design. That evening, we walked through Harrod’s just for the pleasure of looking, and she picked up its newer, admittedly cleaner equivalent, examined the tag and expressed great satisfaction at her Camden Market find.

Burberry scarf purchased at the Camden market, London.

The new acceptability of wearing “gently used” clothing and accessories has put all women – and men – on an equal playing field when it comes to fashion. Thanks to the “great find” we can all wear designer clothing. My little Mulberry purse with its recognizable tree logo often receives envious stares from passersby: it’s a little tattered but has that golden patina associated with the aging of high quality leather. I found it on eBay for fifty dollars.

The new trendsetters are no longer just the jet set or the young kids on the street, but also the rest of us who are able to identify quality, and who want to wear something a little bit different, a little outside the mainstream.  Always ambivalent about my feelings toward the fashion industry, I can find solace in its poorer yet trendier cousin, the used fashion industry. Participating in the “slow clothes” movement reassures me that social awareness does not have to be incompatible with sartorial expression. Maybe that was not exactly what our feminist mothers had in mind when they posited a more feminine form of social organization, but I like to think that it has turned out to be one of its unanticipated outcomes. We are looking at ourselves differently and we are looking at each other with an open mind as we pass our clothes on to each other.

The consignment shop "des' habits et vous" in Lyon.


Les vêtements au ralenti

Mon premier magasin de fripes est un vague souvenir. C’était au début des années 80, et j’étais à la fac dans une petite ville dans l’ouest du Massachusetts. Ma coloc finlandaise du Maine était très cool à mon avis, car elle était blonde, avait les yeux bleus, un accent, et n’avait pas peur de porter des vêtements d’occasion. Avec peu ou aucun revenu, l’armée du salut était une bonne source de jean, de velours côtelé, de manteaux d’hiver, de pulls, de chemisiers et d’accessoires. Je ne me souviens pas de ce que j’ai acheté, un pull probablement. Mais je me souviens avoir essayé de le porter et m’être sentie mal à l’aise, consciente du fait que quelqu’un d’autre avait porté ce vêtement avant moi.

Quelques décennies plus tard, ma fille ado, celle qui a l’intention d’être une artiste bohême quand elle sera grande, m’a convaincue que les fripes étaient une source véritable et légitime de vêtements. Cela aide aussi que quelque chose ait changé dans notre culture. D’occas est devenu chic, probablement parce que des vêtements autrefois appelés « usés » ou « de seconde main » ont été élevés au statut de « vintage».

Avec l’image juxtaposée mais floue de l’occas et du vintage en tête, je jette considère un nouveau regard sur les vieux vêtements. Non seulement c’est plus tendance de porter des vieux vêtements (anciens, usés, fripés), mais c’est aussi devenu politiquement correct. La ligne qui sépare le fripe du vintage étant de plus en plus floue, il n’importe peu ce que l’on trouve, pourvu qu’on s’y sent à l’aise avec et qu’on pourra le porter encore plusieurs fois.

Le dépôt-vente est devenu un magasin de coin de rue, même dans ma région semi-rurale. Ils ont tous des noms amusants, astucieux, tendances, comme « l’Alligator rose, » l’ironique « Nouveauté ,» l’empire toujours grandissant du « Second Time Around » (la deuxième fois) en Nouvelle Angleterre et maintenant à New York, « Beacon’s Closet » (Le Placard de Beacon) dans le quartier très branché de Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Pendant un stage d’enseignement à Lyon j’ai découvert « Des Habits et Vous » qui est amusant phonétiquement (« Deshabillez-vous »).

Près de chez moi, à White River Junction dans le Vermont (voir la très charmante bande dessinée de Max de Radiguès, Pendant ce temps à White River Junction), « Revolution » est un espace qui fournit un ailleurs légèrement baroque. Un espace vaste, absent d’éclairage au néon, avec ces murs peints en noir, ses petites lumières halogènes, sa grosse machine à cappuccino, son vieux sofa en cuir et son énorme miroir, Révolution vous transforme dès que vous y pénétrez. J’ai presque oublié de mentionner la musique, une bande son éclectique, jouée à fond, presque trop fort, comme dans un club tard la nuit. Mais sans la musique, il n’y aurait pas cette atmosphère, comme si vous participiez à un spectacle, et que vous étiez un des comédiens.


Les portants de vêtements sont organisés de la manière suivante : l’occas d’un côté, les stylistes locaux de l’autre, les vêtements pour homme au fond. En effet, la boutique vend aussi des vêtements recyclés ou « restructurés. »

Mon premier achat chez Revolution était une robe à bretelles très minces, à pois bleus et orange sur fond noir, qui me rappelait la marque légèrement bohême, Côtélac. C’est en associant cette robe, sans étiquette et apparemment faite à la main, à une marque que j’aime, que celle-là devenait plus cool, plus belle et vraiment unique.

Quand les fabricants produisent tous les mêmes vêtements dans des usines en Chine (j’ai déjà vu deux jupes de deux marques différentes – Putumayo et Anthropologie -- avec exactement le même imprimé écossais), on a envie de quelque chose d’unique, et encore mieux, fabriqué par quelqu’un touchant un salaire adéquat. La personne qui vendait cette fameuse première robe que j’ai achetée chez Revolution l’avait cousue elle-même. C’était rassurant.

Les nouveaux dépôts-vente ne sont pas seulement une source de vêtements tendance et uniques. Ils expriment aussi une nouvelle façon de voir les choses, pour les femmes et les hommes, une vision similaire à « l’écriture féminine » associée au mouvement féministe des années ’70. Quand j’étais à la fac où j’ai appris que tout était « patriarcal », y-compris la consommation et l’omniprésence des marchandises, l’espoir d’une autre façon de vivre se reposait dans cette notion d’écriture féminine, d’écrire du « corps. » Pas au sens propre du corps biologique de la femme, mais plutôt au sens figuré, d’un « corps » qui n’était pas si agressif et avide de profit.

« Ecrire du corps » (féminin) permettrait à de nouvelles normes/formes de beauté à émerger, en dehors de la norme masculine de la féminité. Le « regardez-moi » des femmes, pour citer le célèbre essai de Laura Mulvey (« Visual Pleasure and Narrative Cinema » 1973), ne se limitait plus au regard voyeuriste et fétichiste des hommes. Les femmes qui ne ressemblaient pas à Marilyn Monroe ou à Madonna pouvaient aussi se considérer comme belles, sexy et séduisantes.

Je ne sais pas si Kim Souza, propriétaire du magasin Revolution et qui a écrit le « Manifeste de Révolution » que le magasin a sur son site web, avait lu Laura Mulvey avant de l’écrire, mais son manifeste condense en une série de courtes déclarations plusieurs idées clefs associées à la deuxième vague féministe.

LE MANIFESTE DE REVOLUTION TEL QU’IL VOUS EST PRESENTE SUR VOTRE CORPS QUI EST UNE TOILE VIDE SUR LAQUELLE NOUS POUVONS EXPRIMER NOTRE IDENTITE. NOTRE IDENTITE UNIQUE, NE SE LAISSANT PAS COMPROMETTRE PAR LES ETIQUETTES OU LA PEUR OU LE JUGEMENT, EST LE FONDEMENT POUR UNE COMMUNAUTE BASEE SUR LA DIVERSITE ET L’INCLUSIVITE. NOUS VOUS INVITONS DE L’AUTRE COTE DE LA CULTURE DE LA COUTURE QUI PROSPERE DE L’EXCES POUR NOUS RAPPELER QUE L’HUMANITE N’A PAS BESOIN DE GOMMAGE, ET QUE LA MODE NOUS PERMET D’AUGMENTER NOTRE BEAUTE INTERIEURE , NON PAS DE LA DEFINIR. NOUS SOMMES DES REVOLUTIONNAIRES. NOUS SOMMES DES DIVAS. NOUS NOUS AMUSONS A NOTRE MANIERE. NOUS SOMMES COURAGEUSES ET BELLES A L’INTERIEUR. NOUS SOMMES DES INDIVIDUS PUISSANTS QUI INFLUENCONS LES CHANGEMENTS QUE NOUS DESIRONS. NOUS SOMMES DES INFLUENCES PAISIBLES ET RADIEUSES. NOUS SOMMES CULOTTEES, SENSIBLES ET DETERMINEES.
Deux fois par an, des femmes et des hommes de tout âge, de n’importe quelle taille, et n’importe quel format participent au défilé de mode de Revolution, tenu dans un restaurant où un podium est installé pour l’occasion. Personne n’est choisi pour le défilé. On s’inscrit, les premiers sont pris, et on doit porter des vêtements du magasin, que vous n’êtes pas du tout obligés d’ acheter. Une maquilleuse est embauchée pour maquiller le visage de tous les participants. Et voici la clef du secret : tous les « mannequins » ont exactement le même maquillage. Le résultat est impressionnant : cette uniformité unit les participants, les mettant tous sur une même plate-forme esthétique. Tout à coup la beauté n’a plus d’âge, ni de poids, ni de taille. La beauté est simplement belle. Tout le monde a sa place sur le podium.



Le défilé de Revolution. Kim Souza tient le micro. Ma fille Clara en avant plan. Photo : Remko Scharroo

Le dépôt-vente ouvre la possibilité de vivre différemment, à contre-courant d’une culture dominante obsédée du profit et d’idées violentes vis-à-vis la beauté féminine. Parfois le dépôt-vente est un autre espace de consommation, où peu au aucun argent n’est échangé car l’on peut encaisser de nouveaux vêtements
avec l’équivalent monétaire de ce que l’on y a vendu. Cela devient du troc, une forme d’échange pré-capitaliste.

Déposer ses vêtements a un autre bénéfice matériel et émotionnel, celui de purger. Lorsqu’on dépose des vieux vêtements, cela veut dire qu’on a effectué un tri dans nos placards. Un processus qui nécessite une réflexion sur ce dont on a vraiment besoin ainsi qu’une élimination de choses dont on a plus besoin ou plus envie. La purge peut adoucir la transition associée à un changement radical dans la vie, comme un nouveau travail, ou la réduction de la taille de son habitat. Rien de plus thérapeutique que de se débarrasser de choses dont on n’a plus besoin. Ajoutons-y le bénéfice d’un peu d’argent gagné dans certains cas.

Ajoutons à la thérapie de la purge l’émotion de la « grande trouvaille ». La grande trouvaille c’est essentiellement la découverte dans portants sur portants de vêtements, sacs, chaussures, accessoires une paire de chaussures Ferragamo en très bon état, un manteau Missoni impeccable, une robe en soie ayant un superbe imprimé, tout cela coûtant bien moins que si vous l’achetiez neuf. Je n’oublierai jamais un voyage à Londres où ma fille ainée n’avait qu’une idée en tête : que je lui achète une écharpe Burberry en cashmere chez Harrod’s. Je l’ai amenée au marché de Camden Market dans le nord de Londres, où nous avons cherché et trouvé pour trente livres une écharpe Burberry en cashmere dans son imprimé écossais classique. Ce soir-là nous sommes allées chez Harrod’s juste pour le plaisir de voir, et ma fille examina avec beaucoup de satisfaction l’étiquette de son équivalent plus neuf et en effet plus éclatant, mais aussi beaucoup plus cher.



L’écharpe Burberry achetée au marché de Camden, à Londres.

Photo : Annabelle Cone (toutes les photos seront les miennes à moins que cela soit indiqué autrement)

Ce qui change aussi avec la nouvelle acceptation de s’habiller en déjà porté c’est que tous les hommes et les femmes sont à égalité en ce qui concerne la mode. Grâce à la « grande trouvaille » nous pouvons tous porter de grandes marques. Mon petit sac Mulberry avec son logo d’arbre attire parfois des regards envieux des passants : il est un peu usé et a la patine associée à un bon vieux cuir de bonne qualité. Je l’ai trouvé sur eBay pour cinquante dollars.

Les innovateurs de la mode ne sont plus que les jeunes citadins osés, mais aussi nous autres qui sommes capables d’identifier la qualité, et qui voulons porter quelque chose d’un peu différent, un peu hors norme. Ayant toujours été ambivalente vis-à-vis l’industrie de la mode, je trouve du réconfort dans son cousin pauvre, l’industrie de la fripe. En participant au mouvement des « vêtements au ralenti » (c’est mon néologisme) je me rassure qu’une conscience sociale n’est pas nécessairement incompatible avec le désir de s’exprimer à travers ses vêtements. Peut-être que nos mères féministes n’avaient pas du tout cela en tête lorsqu’elles ont proposé une forme plus féminine d’organisation sociale, mais j’aime croire que c’est un de ses résultats non-anticipés. Nous nous regardons nous et les autres d’une façon différente et avec un esprit plus ouvert tandis que nous échangeons nos vêtements.